1st Half of 2014
One of my favourite stories is Alice in Wonderland, its filled with lots of strange adventures. Has dangers around every corner and is one of the most curious of curious tales to be told. In some ways I view SL as my wonderland and the people and characters I meet can be similar to the characters out of tales. I use SL as a means to role-play so for me my interactions with people are always intended to be fun and flirtatious.
My profile sums it up nicely, "Neko, fiesty, playful, affectionate, earthly nature, poly-amorous nymphet feline, somewhat strange, often a little odd with hints of mischief, naughtiness, nonsense & madness. Some say I am insane, I say its relative to ones own insanity".
This brings me to the whole SL vs RL thing. Yes, its such a touchy subject and I have seen heated arguments in SL over it. So to be totally up front here I really don't care what view others have or if they a-line with mine. If one takes offence then that is not my problem. SL for me will always be a place of role-play and as such the larger computer based gaming community across the world would say its a none linear socially oriented alternate roleplay experience.
I also draw a firm line between RL and SL! Although I do on occasions share some aspects of my RL, I do keep them apart and will never disclose anything that would lead to a merging of those I meet in SL and my RL. There are 2 reasons for this; the first is to honour the decision my RL partner and I made to each other which I briefly explained in Part 2. The second is I want the freedom for SL to continue to be my Alice in Wonderland or as I call it "Lilith's Wonderland" without the complications of unwanted potential drama.
As Alice changes through her journey so has Lilith, she has awakened and accepted her true nature and continues to see were the tale will take her. Lilith is no-longer the Uni administrator who delves into indiscriminate role-play. She has blossomed into the Neko is now known as "Purrs Like A Kitten", hence the name of this blog. I would have been "Purrs Like A Pussy" if I could have set my display name that way. The Lab's in their wisdom have demeed the word "pussy" is defined as an anatomical feature of the female anatomy even though most dictionaries first definition is "a cat, especially a kitten".
As an educated woman I would love to debate with the plebs at the Lab's who made the decision to censorship the word as a "naughty word". I wonder if they see "fanny" as a naughty word considering in North America it is used as a term for buttocks which is in noway offensive whereas in the rest of the world its used the way the Lab's have deemed that the word "pussy" is unacceptable. Rant over...... hehehehe.
This phase of Lilith's journey starts in 2014, once again its all a bit vague until we get closer to the end of 2014. During this time I meet various people, some became closer than others and some even became potential owners of my collar. Lucky for me I am a cautious person who can read people by what they write and how they act around others. This often lead to a decision on my side that ownership of my collar would never be offered.
After several months that all came to a conclusion with an IM discussion about the boots I was wearing and following discussions lead me down a path were I would offer this person ownership of my collar. For me, this meeting awakened an internal desire to learn more about this person. In the back of my mind from day one I had the mind set "Is she the one" and yes I really didn't care if she was a she or a he in RL. To me who she is in SL and can we come together in here as a dom/sub couple work is all that was important.
At this point Miss Colleen is introduced into "Lilith's Wonderland" and brings us to around the end of the 3rd quarter of 2014, an ideal spot to close part 3 of this series.